Keeping the in-laws from becoming the out-laws!

I have noted time and again here that there are studies for everything and anything. This one below, reported in the Wall Street Journal, is intriguing:

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424127887323713104578137222992767676.html

The Power of the Son-in-Law

Research Shows That Charming Your Wife's Parents Helps Make a Marriage Last

 

Here's the report's concluding paragraphs: 

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Want to improve in-law relations in your family? Here are some tips...

If you are a parent of a daughter, be open to bonding with your son-in-law. You are probably from different generations and backgrounds, but you can still find common ground. It will make your daughter happy to see this man is a cherished member of her family. Be practical, though. A father- and son-in-law will rarely be as tightknit as a father and son.

Parents of a son, tread carefully. Your daughter-in-law is probably more sensitive to meddling than a son-in-law would be. She may perceive interference when none was intended. Or maybe you were intruding a bit.

If you are a wife, be aware of the need to maintain boundaries with your in-laws—especially when sharing details about your marriage, parenting decisions or personal issues. Reassure your in-laws that you want a close and loving relationship, but learn to say no. If conflict arises, ask your husband for help settling it.

If you are a husband, treat your in-laws as special and important. Remember that when you care for them, your wife feels you are caring for her.

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